Our Heart
Our heart is composed of our desires, our ambitions, our thoughts, our emotions, our priorities and our will. There is overlap in these, but each has an an important place in our decisions and behavior.
Our heart not only directs our behavior, but our personality. To be sure, we are born with individual personalities, but we also develop and change our personalities through the desires of our heart.
Reality is, that all behavioral problems are heart problems. Bad behavior flows from the heart. Jesus said this when he described the fruit and the tree.
Matthew 7:16-18 (NKJV) 16 You will know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes from thornbushes or figs from thistles?17 Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit.18 A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.
Jesus said the heart was the source of sin.
19 For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies. Matt 15:19
He also said "Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God". Matt 5:8
David said, Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it flow the issues of life". Prov 4:23
Our behavior is driven by our thoughts, our emotions, our desires, our ambitions, and our priorities. The Christian life is allowing Jesus, through his Word and Spirit, to change us at heart level. Each of us are responsible to manage our lives in as way that honors Christ. Real change does not happen until we submit at heart level, i.e., our thoughts, emotions, desires, ambitions and priorities.
This is serious change. We are talking about allowing Jesus to be "formed" in us. He wants our heart to be conformed to His heart. What this means is that we "take on" His thoughts, His emotions, His ambitions, His desires, and His priorities. This is what it means to be conformed to Christ.
This leads us to a discussion of Self-Control